For the most pleasure derived from sex, vampires are particular about lovers playing by the rules. Sex needs to be kept in prospective to fully achieve the maximum from every experience. Vampires distinguish the source of sex, acknowledging the differences between a casual affair from the sex shared with a trusted lover. Without a partner, the occasion with a new lover has rules for first dates, where vampires keeping their expectations low and use the specialized techniques reserved for first-time sex. Vampires establish boundaries, they know their limits, and don’t exploit the sex.
Vampires know the difference between pure physical sex and the emotion called love. They advise lovers to pleasure in the sex. This allows them to accept the sex is in the mind, and gives rise to very powerful feelings, love remains in the heart. Vampires keep the two separate. Don’t expect the sex you have to make you loved, sex will fail you, and leave you feeling used.
Vampires know the secret to good sex is keep the sex inside. Sex is in your mind not your partner’s body, so don’t expect someone else to satisfy you sexually. It also means that going to bed with every human being on the planet won’t make you happy because you alone have make the sex work. Our bodies are essentially the same, it’s our minds that make sex special.
Vampire sex has no cost. Vampire sex is completely free—physically, emotionally and sexually. In a relationship vampires do not charge their minds with guilt. Vampires do not burden their partner with shame. Importantly, they certainly don’t use sex to gain control of the relationship.
Vampire sex has no demands. This means vampires don’t expect their lover to agree just because they asked. Vampires don’t cheat or lie to their partners to get sex. Fun sex is free not forced.
In sex, vampires have no regrets. Remember if the sex was wanted and is always good, then it doesn’t matter if it’s not “perfect.” Sex can always get better—that’s a good excuse to do it again—but never put the sex down when that means your punishing yourself and blaming your partner.
Remember, sex with your vampire lover is always good. Vampires see sex as reciprocal so any activity is a shared experience. And with the sharing comes the recognition that the sex was good so thank your partner after making love, even if all you exchanged was a simple kiss.
Vampires want the sex they share with their lover. To vampires, the sex must be wanted not accepted as convenient. This is not like a sale where if you don’t buy you miss out on a bargain. Keep fun sex free of obligations.
The vampires believe to gain the most physical pleasure from sex, extend the love of your mind and body to your partner. This means you respect their mind, their body, and their sexual appetite. Your bodies are going to work together to attain the ultimate pleasure so stay in tune.
To gain the most from vampire-styled sex, don’t forget to love your body. Your body is the vehicle of sex, it’s not the source of it. Because sex is controlled by the mind, you don’t need a perfect body to have great sex. Vampires are comfortable with their body image and not ashamed of the physical. Let your body get the most out of sex.